Client Resources

  • Recommended Books

    "The New Rules of Marriage" by Terry Real
    A must-read for understanding power, connection, and modern relational dynamics.

    "Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship" by Terry Real
    Offers concrete tools and stories to build mutual respect and healthy communication.

    "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman
    A research-based guide to cultivating love, trust, and conflict management.

    "Hold Me Tight" by Dr. Sue Johnson
    A foundational EFT book explaining how attachment needs shape conflict and closeness.

    "Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence"
    A groundbreaking exploration of how to maintain desire and erotic connection in long-term relationships.

    "The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity"
    A nuanced, compassionate guide to understanding and healing from affairs—whether you're staying together or not.

  • Podcasts

    "Small Things Often" – The Gottman Institute
    Short, daily relationship tips based on decades of research.
    Listen on Spotify

    "Where Should We Begin?" with Esther Perel
    Real couples in real therapy sessions—relatable, profound, and often healing to hear.
    Listen on Apple Podcasts

    Foreplay Radio with Dr. Laurie Watson, LMFT and George Faller, LMFT

    Covering important topics around sexuality, marriage, eroticism and partnership from an Emotionally Focused Therapy perspective.

    Listen on Apple Podcasts

  • Youtube Videos and Channels

    Terry Real – Live Demos & Talks
    Watch on YouTube

    The Gottman Institute Channel
    Short clips on love languages, conflict repair, bids for connection, and more.
    Visit Channel

    Dr. Sue Johnson – EFT Talks and Demos
    Including powerful excerpts from live sessions and keynote speeches.
    Watch Here

    Esther Perel's Official YouTube Channel
    Short-form wisdom, longer interviews, and podcast highlights.
    Visit Channel

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